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New York Daily News: Surrogate Moms are Celebrity Incubators according to Linda Stasi

by NAFG

The Kim Kardashian surrogacy reveal has brought out plenty of critics - ready to use this case to offer uninformed opinions regarding surrogacy in general. Linda Stasi did just this in the New York Daily News on June 23, 2017.

Stasi does a good job of adding provocative commentary to a sensational (and wholly uncommon) story. However, she has written a piece which clearly shows a complete lack of research and lack of understanding related to the complex world of gestational surrogacy. Oh yeah, it is catchy to offer that surrogacy is the choice of entitled celebrities and desperate, impoverished "uterus-renters." But missing is any acknowledgment that the vast majority of surrogacy cases in this country (indeed ones which also involve Kardashian-like fees) consist of much more compelling fact patterns and much more reasonable motives. The young couples we see in our program who have survived breast and other cancers (and have frozen embryos from their own gametes) are simply eager to have a child. Just as eager as before cancer, but now it is unsafe or impossible (in the hysterectomy cases) to carry. They are looking for a responsible and caring woman to serve as their surrogate. Albeit hard to find, these kinds of women (hardly uneducated or desperate or in financial trouble) do indeed exist. They are often nurses or social workers or teachers - they come from walks of life where helping others (frequently in distress) is part of their nature. And they are strangers - at first - to the intended parents. We find that the payment of fees to a stranger who offers to take on the time, effort and health risks of pregnancy is one which is readily accepted by both sides.

These are the surrogacy stories we can feel good about. And - apparently - these are the stories that Linda Stasi would never care about.

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/world/stasi-surrogate-moms-celebrity-incubators-article-1.3272775